"It is not length of life, but depth of life." – Ralph Waldo Emerson
You are important. Our life together was meaningful. I am sorry. I forgive you. Thank you. I love you. Goodbye.
End-of-life decisions are best made in the light of day, not under the harsh glare of an ICU monitor at 3:00 a.m. For only then can we bid a fond farewell and know that it truly is.
if you find yourself laughing at a funeral, or chuckling through tears, don’t feel guilty. Feel grateful.
"In less than 10 minutes, the air in the room felt lighter – not because the situation changed, but because truth, spoken with tenderness, created space for autonomy, comfort, and connection." -- Cathy Yuhas
Befriend your eventual demise to figure out what matters most.
"I interviewed a retired airline pilot about the issue. He confirmed that the captain and crew have ultimate authority and that CPR use is the protocol that overrides a DNR." -- Althea Halchuck
"Why couldn’t there be a service for these people where they can get MAiD-type help or have guidance on using a peaceful, lethal method?" -- Faye Girsh
We were united by one shared calling: helping people learn about and access their end-of-life choices.
Many older adults maintain extensive online presences, but they may not have the tools or knowledge to ensure their accounts are secure and accessible to people they trust. Now they can.